Do you keep the dignity in front of the person you loved? When you love someone, you will get much more hurt, if your love to her is more deeper and stronger. As you give the chance to her to hurt you. Actually, the stable and lasting love relies on the mutual nourishment of love.Eileen Chang worte "When you love someone, you will be humble to the dust, then bloom with a beautiful flower. " But then Eileen did never love him any more